Getting heavy. I had a problem in a class recently. Someone stopped ‘feeling’ and began ‘doing his moves’.
‘Trying to do the next move’ is not such a problem in fixed-step pushing hands, where movements are fairly repetitive, but in the Dui Lian (2-person form) it is a big problem. This is a set routine and each person is meant to follow her part, but at the same time if you just ‘do your moves’ it’s all a bit meaningless, and just becomes a dance. In fact done this way (which is how I learnt it for years), I don’t think there’s much point to it other than to show some basic applications.
So what do you do? In 2-person work (and this applies to pushing hands also), when your partner does an action which affects you, you need to put him in such a position that there is only one way for her to get out of it, and that one way is whatever is the next move in the 2-person form. In other words, you close down all other options so that he can only escape through the loophole that he creates.
This doesn’t stop the problem of someone being over enthusiastic, but it does mean that, in the act of attempting to close down all options for the other person, you’re feeling what the other person might be able to do at any point if you give him the slightest opportunity. In this way, all of the connecting movements for both partners stay very alive and conscious.
It’s a game. The whole 2-person game is like playing chess, or in fact any game. You try to reduce the other player’s options, ideally forcing her into a position where she has to sacrifice something. That ‘sacrifice’ is the moment where his energy runs out, her control is lost, or his energy is dissipated. This then allows you to do your move, which can’t be done if the other person is still able to control you… and that’s the crucial point.
When you walk, you can’t step forwards with your back foot if you still have weight on it. In 2-person work, you can’t do your move correctly if the other person is still partially in control, therefore limiting your movements!
But it’s unusual! I should say that it’s rare for someone to be hurt. Working with someone else is a dialogue via the senses, and occasionally verbally, and this was actually the first time that I’ve had the problem occur, although in the past I myself have been hurt on many occasions through my partner ‘doing his stuff’ without any awareness of the result of what he was doing.
…And there are places where practising any 2-person work is, to say the least, … dodgy!
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